a relaxed pace

I’m enjoying the way I get to know people now, a little at a time, no urgency. And I’m enjoying that the folks I’m spending time with also have children and don’t seem to mind getting a date once every couple of weeks.

Not only does this relaxed schedule take the pressure off me (when all I’ve done for the past week are manage logistics, work late, shuttle children around, do laundry and shop for groceries), but also allows a fellow to miss me, place a high value on his time with me and wait with anticipation to see me.

Kinda works in my favor..just a little…I think.

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One response to “a relaxed pace

  • A Dog With Fleas

    I totally agree. Like the saying goes “Absence makes the heart grow fonder!” You sound so busy and am sure your dates are nice respites. And like you said, it gives them a chance to miss you a little!! 🙂 Good luck with everything my friend!! L)

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